yh mate im the same- well when i'm around friends that i've known for a while i dont blush as much, but most of the time i do around most girls unless i know them really well and dont feel threatened or put under pressure by them.

im 16 and ive only really started going to house partys and stuff. If i get on with some girl really well i usually start to get very consious of what im doing around her and tend to go red after a while.- and it really doesnt help if she or one of her friends points it out. it just makes it soooo much worse. Usually when i drink a lot tho i feel so much more confident and find myself doing things that i wouldn't dare do around girls if i were sobre. its a relly good feeling but thats practically the only time i can be really confident without going bright red.
I can be confident around certain girls tho and sometimes be the centre of attention and i wont go red at all, but i suppose its just if u feel comfortable with who you are when you're with them. but i hate it and i really hope it doesnt effect me when i go to uni or later on in life. Good to hear about others having the same problem and that I aint the only one.
The only thing thats worked for me so far is drinking and i dont think that i can rely on that my whole life, but owell.