Sleepwalking Experiences

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Welcome to Serendip's forum for sharing sleepwalking experiences. "Sleepwalking is a sleep disorder effecting an estimated 10 percent of all humans at least once in their lives. This widespread phenomenon varies in its intensity and frequency. While most sleepwalking incidents are short and not dangerous, some can involve self-injury and are much more dangerous for the sleeper. Also, most interestingly, the disorder seems to stem from many different sources, not from one definable cause such as a chemical imbalance." (Howard, 1999)

This forum is a place to share sleepwalking experiences, thoughts, feelings, treatments, and experiences. Serendip does not offer special medical expertise, but rather a gathering place to talk, listen, think aloud and be heard.

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Drunk Pissing

So I get drunk only like 1 night in two weeks, but when I drink a lot I always go to bed and start pissing everywhere. Never on my actual bed, but I've pissed anywhere from right next to my bed on the carpet to all the way downstairs and in a corner. Possibly the worst time was when i got up (i dont remember any of this) and pissed into my drawer with white tshirts, needless to say I did a big load of whites the next day..Why can't I find the bathroom when I'm drunk sleepwalking? If I can find a drawer to piss in why can't I find a toilet? Is there anything I can do to prevent pissing everywhere? Obviously not drinking would do the trick but i want to figure out a way to solve this

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my son pees at night

my 5 year old sleep walks, he has since he was about 2, but he only recently started trying to pee in weird places. Ive managed to get him to the washroom most times but he always seems to try to pee in the fridge. tonight i managed to get him out of the fridge but his pants came down and he peed on the kitchen floor. he woke up about 30 seconds later with his underwear down and pee on his legs standing in a big puddle not knowing what had happened. He has also tried to leave the house while sleep walking. i dont know what to do. im going to talk to his doctor and hopefully get some input from her...

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any help?

hi there, i struggle with my sleep. i had problems as a kid. and all was fine.... now in my thirties its ridiculous, ive locked myself outside, i have walked outside several times, walked the dog. had counselling, affected so bad i gave up. please help x

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Got drunk and pissed on the carpet.

Was drinking beer, playing with the dogs and watching TV alone late on Friday. I went into the bedroom to go to bed, but decided to go have another beer. For some reason I just decided to take a leak right next to the bed. I don't really know what I was thinking, I just needed to relieve myself then and there, so I did. I kind of felt like one of the dogs, marking my territory or something.. My wife woke up and asked what was going on. She went back to sleep, not angry, but I think she is worried about me. I am so ashamed today, I really don't even want to leave my room. I am off drink; that was a little too out of control for me.
Thank you for this blog, this is not something I would even discuss with my doctor.

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drunk (pissed)

My husband drinks quite often , and he keeps waking trying to find the bathroom in our bedroom and he has almost peed in the closet twice and by the wIndow at least 3 times,
i redirect him to the bathroom and off he goes and then comes back to bed
In the morning, he doesnt remember it at all!

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Sleep walk peeing son

My son who is 6 does this. It isn't quite as frequent as it used to be, but it is bad enough that we are going to have to replace carpeting. It isn't ever the same place, and it is always on the floor. He seems to be walking to where he thinks the bathroom is and just peeing. We have tried waking him up in the middle of the night and taking him to the bathroom, and sometimes that helps, but not always. We have no idea what to do, but this problem is going to end up costing up thousands of dollars in repairs! Help!

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Sleep peeing!

My 6 yr old sleep walks at least twice a week and pees in various places, our bed, garbage cans, on our rugs, kitchen floor, tub, and various other places. We have a difficult time wakin him up. I have been big on making him go potty before bed, if I see him up we pick him up and take him to bathroom. Sometimes works! Lastnight almost pee'd on our decorative bed pillows! He does not take medicine, we limit his intake of fluids at night.

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drunk sleep walk peeing

For some odd reason i have no idea why but every once in a while when i have some beer with friends and i go to sleep, I will sleep walk and pee in my shoes. Ill slightly remember my experiences but ill look for a certain pair of shoes and pee in both of them and make sure it holds my pee with out spilling.

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me too

i ve share the same problem as u and my shoes seems to get it all the time plus on top of that i chart at my girlfriend while being asleep ,it s really stressful as i m scared i might get physical with her !!
she actually recorded me as i have non-recognition of the event !!
i need help , but before seeking help i need to stop drinking !!
it s killing me pfff

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the solution

This has happened to me several times in my life. Would be standing in the middle of the room staring at the wall and my wife would wake me up and direct me to the bathroom. This is the worst when I am in a strange place. Nothing worse than peeing on the Entertainment Center. Ever since we have left the bathroom light on, it hasn't happened. Being incoherent, you will be drawn to the light. You get lost in your sleep, leave the bathroom light on and you won't do it again.

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peeing on friends

Last night, I peed on my friends as they were sleeping. Didint remember a thing when I woke up - they, however, probably will not forget.

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Scared the hell out of me

So I have had blackout pee experiences in the past where I woke up and found out that I had peed on,usually, furniture. But the other day I did something different that scared the hell out of me. I had been drinking but no where near enough to have a blackout pee experience. I woke up peeing in the toilet and was very confused and it sobered me up. I didnt understand how I got to the bathroom but I just remember waking up to me peeing. It was so confuaing and if anyone else has had or heard of this or something similar please reply.

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my husband does the same.

I'm at a loss! My husband pees n the kitchen floor in my closet on the fan that's plugged in. I don't know what to do I'm worried about him hes a very classy well respected man but has a Night time pee prob.

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my husband does the same thing

he drinks too much and pees in the kitchen sink or in the middle of the floor or shower. The drinking has to stop but how do you get them to stop?

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my boyfriend does it too...

At first I thought he was just blackout wasted because he drinks quite often but since then it has happened several more times when he hasn't been drunk. What perplexes me to no end is that he doesn't do it in the same place every time so it's not like he's turned around backwards or anything. Also, he has absolutely no recollection of it and pees on a wide variety of objects that do not resemble a toilet at all. He has peed all over my dresser & shoes ( i had to take my clothes out & wash them), all over different walls, cupboards and sections of random flooring, a few other random things, and, night before last, all over my robe, the floor and my daughters chair. Once, he made it to the bathroom but peed on the wall & cupboards instead, no where near the toilet... I don't know what to do! I know he is embarrassed about it and I know I'm tired of cleaning it up. Does anyone have any advice?

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YEA

I passed out black out drunk then sleep walked and peed on my roommate awhile back and he woke me up like WTF. Ever since then i will sleep walk and try to pee on things, take dresser jours out, just random stuff now just from like one beer. Im can honestly handle a 24 pack of booze and not be like blackout drunk. i can still talk to people and they can understand me i can walk straight and everything. So il drink a 12 pack or even like five freaking beers and go to bed and my wife tells me the next morning the stories of the night before what i did while sleep walking. It ONLY happens when i drink. Im in the military and i when im sleep walking i will talk about anything from random stuff that makes no sense to past afghanistan experiences. Its weird. I keep looking up things on the internet to maybe see if other people have the same problem and it seems so but it seems no one really knows WHY it happens or a solution...it drives me nuts lol. I mean i could never drink ever again but its nice to have a beer every once in awhile. The best solution from what iv read is leaving the bathroom light on or using a night light in the bathroom so it draws you to the bathroom.

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i have recently been doing

i have recently been doing the same stuff kinda freaked out by it. im currently in the military and dont know if i should tell my chain. Any thoughts did you tell your?

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my boyfriend keeps urinating on things and i cant wake him up

Dear blogger, have you had any issues some you left your light on? I'm worried about my partner he's urinated on sound systems the bed side tables and recently the top of his dresser.... I don't know what to do it only happens when he's had a few beers but I can never fully wake him when he's doing it and its beginning to worry me, I've even started making him urinate when he comes in from having a few with his pals and and is ready for bed... I don't know if it's working yet just started that the other day but I'm desperately looking for help... I'm so tired of having to babysit a 29yr old man and clean up so much peeeee!

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My Husband... scary NOT funny

He has done this several times. Once was on our kitchen table. Another time has been our laptop (actually it has happened on 2 seperate laptops). There have been many others that weren't quite so... memorable I guess.
Now however, we have full custody of his daughter (due to very personal and drug induced reasons from the biological mother). We were drinking and the kid was in bed during the time. Him and her were both on persciption meds because of a cold she brought home from "her mom's or MIMI's house".
Even though I am used to his peeing adventures by now, it came as a shock when at 2:30a.m. he wanders into his daughter's room.
I immediately knew what was going on. I had seen it many times before. The fact is though he almost peed in my kid's/his daughter's room in the middle of the night. I was able to drag him out of the room within seconds due to a new addiction to a facebook game called "Castleville".
You may be reading all of these sleep peeing entries and laughing to yourselves but imagine what my husband went through the next day when he realized what I drug him out of doing (thank GOD she was asleep when it almost happened). You think it is sooooo funny, "Oh I got drunk and in the middle of the night... I peed on this or that."
It is not amusing, or cute, or funny.
That kind of crap... no one wants to or should deal with it. If you do it, STOP DRINKING.

And if you don't stop drinking, do the world a favor and don't let anyone into your life, because if you love them, you won't drink.

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Upsetting

Are you certain he is not interfering with the girl? I find it disturbing he was in her room, and obviously had his penis out. I think you need to be very cautious, for the child' s sake, and if I'm wrong, get the pig to AA or leave him. What kind of life is this?

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drunk peeing

I feel your pain. Im in tears as we speak. My husband of 2 years lover of 10 has peed on the floor again. It makes me so upset b/c when I get him up to show him hes done it again he almost laughs or gos isto denial. I really think he believes someone else did it or hes being set up cause I just want too argue.I dont get to sleep at home all the time b/c of my overnight job and when hes drinking I always feer hes going to pee on me I would be so ashamed of myself if I got peed onb/c I dont know if I would want to stay with a man who uses me like a toilet. I have caught him about to pee on our 9 year old one time Am I the reason Im in this possition I feel like if I dont want this in my life I have to leave but then whatcdo I tell our two kids I left because daddy pees the bed???!!!

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That's crazy that happened to

That's crazy that happened to my boyfriend not too long ago it pissed me off so much Cuz he woke my daughter up and she was so confused and he had no idea what he had done and told him too not to drink anymore if that's gunna happen

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I agree, it's aweful...

I am trying to get my husband to stop drinking because he does this and also gets very angry if he wakes up suddenly from deep sleep and after drinking. It scares me. I don't want to have a baby with him if I can't trust him to control his drinking and avoid sleep walking/peeing/abusive behaviors.

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my peeing sleepwalk

It was my father's 42nd birthday in a disco,we got back home at 6 in the morning and all went to bed right away.The next morning I drank my coffee with them and my dad tod me that he had heard a peeing sound.Then he'd seen me peeing on his wardrobe.He'd told me out and I'd went.Funny thing though,i guess i had been completely done by the time he had sent me off as my pants were dry and so was the floor and my bed.I have no memory,but find it quite embarrassing to know lol ;d

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Peed on my cable box

So in the past year or so, my drinking had gotten really heavy. I was drinking copious amonts of liquer, beer, any thing that would get me oblitterated. My first sleep peeing events happened in my bed, which was about twice. As time went on, I stopped drinking hard liquer and just stuck with beer. My first notable sleepwalk peeing event was when I woke up in the morning with the head of my bed and my pillow wet. I had passed out in bed with a half-full beer before somI looked for a bottle but never found one. Upon further investigation of my wet bed I discovered that it was urine. Now, two nights ago, I drank two tall cans of steel reserve, my usual for the past few months. Yesterday while my girlfriend was over, I went to turn on my cable box and tv and found that the cable box wouldnt turn on. I started to check all the plugs behind the tv and found that my xbox cable was unplugged but not the cable box. I started moving the cable box to look behind it and found that there was liquid underneath it all over the glass stand that it sits on. I decided to smell the liquid and discovered it was pee! After realizing this I decided that that was the reason my xbox power supply was unplugged. I must have realized what I was doing in my sleep and tried to save it from being ruined. I told my girlfriend and wow, I've never seen her laugh so hard at pee before! She suggested I set up a camera to see what I do in the night lol. Sorry for the lengthy post!

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Stop drinking

How about you stop drinking, get help like AA or your pastor before you hurt yourself or someone else

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thats just rude to say.

thats just rude to say.

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Sleepwalk Pissing

So last night I sleepwalked while drunk. Thats only happened once before (that I know of!) The first time I had got pretty drunk and was sleeping on my friends futon. Apparently I thought it wasnt comfortable enough and jumped into his dad´s king sized bed... while he was in it! To this day his dad makes all these homoerotic jokes about me haha.

But last night it was even worse. I was drinking a lot of rum with some friends. We were at this girl´s apartment and I made out with her, then ended up getting really emotional and crying... that´s all I remember. I woke up the next morning and for some reason my socks were off and wet. I figured that we had spilled a drink or something and put them on and walked home. Until this morning, until my other friend asked me if I remembered what I did. I thought he was asking about me making out with that girl, so with a smirk I´m like, did you see it? He then said he didnt know if it was a dream or not but he saw me in the corner pissing at night. FUCK! The girl hasnt said anything so either she thought it was a drink or is reeeeaally cool. Ive been straight up ashamed all day, but I feel less bad after reading some of these stories.

Btw, its weird that I see a lot of people post that they drank rum too and took off their socks too. WTF? Maybe the socks are a drunken attempt to ¨clean it up¨

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Duh.

When I sleepwalk-pee, it seems that I can always find the toilet. It's only happened 3 times in my life (I'm 35). Last night was one of them. I did drink a few beers earlier in the evening. Anyway, my wife thought it was funny because I hung the towel on the mirror over the sink and not the towel hanger. Read below for more pathetic comments, righteous "don't drink" comments, down-right hilarious comments.

Some people can handle some alcohol. Some can't. Nobody is the better because of it.

In summation...tadow.

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Am i crazy or what??

Ok so last night I went out to the bar with my co-workers after work for a few pitchers as usual. I've been kind-of talking to this one girl from work. We left the bar pretty late around 12 or 1 and went back to her place. The next thing i know i'm driving home soaked in my own urine with just my shirt and briefs on.. After waking up i text the girl from work and she explained that i peed on her, her bed, broke her mirror and yelled at her.. I am a very calm person naturally and would never do anything like that in my right mind.. I am ashamed of myself and now she will probably never talk to me again.. This has happened about 5 times that i know of and ruined my marriage.. Now i'm afraid it's going to ruin my social life. I'm going to go to the doctor asap but figured i would find out more from other people around the net. If anybody knows what might be going on or is having a related issue please reply to this..

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peeing

Perhaps you should consider giving up drinking?

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Drunk sleepwalking

So last night I went out and had a few beers with my friends I wasn't too drunk I remember everything. Woke up this morning to my mom telling me I tried to pee in her room again. It happens all the time when I'm drunk and have to go to the bathroom. It's happen at my friends house and on vacation with my ex boyfriend. I was calling him by my dads name too so clearly I was sleepwalking. Idk why this happens but I'm not in danger or anything I think it's kind of funny, not embarrassing.

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inlove with a urinater

I can only justify this by assuming it was him sleep walking. although im certain he was semi-consiouse as he did respond to me as me and in the present time. always when he has been drinking. first time was in our hallway, when asked what he was doing his response was "dont u know your supposed to pee down stream?" the second time he got out of bed, walked around to our bedside table, opened the drawer inches from my face, aimed and urinated in the drawer. the third time, i found him at 3 am sleeping in our sons toddler bed, which he had peed in, of course. although, he considerately took his own pants off. since then, if he has been drinking i dont sleep. he shows no remorse, or shame whatsoever on the subject. i am 25 years old, he is 35. stopping/cutting back on alcohol is not an option for him, the idea shuts him out completely. weve had no other issues regarding the alcohol such as violence or money problems. but this is enough for me. i spend all day changing diapers and wiping my childrens butts, i dont need to spend all night guarding every corner of my home. sleeping on edge listening for the sound of him wandering the halls looking for a place to do his business. i will present him with an ultimatum that invovles choosing between eliminating the alcohol completely, a diaper, a catheder, or the absence of me completely. to whoever says "this isnt seriouse" is in denial. it is seriouse, urin contains contaminants and bacteria that can cause salmonella and other harmfull diseases. i have children. p.s. these ARE just the few times i caught him. i cant imagine how often this happened without me noticing. wich would make more sence out of why the heater in the bathroom smells like piss.

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My boyfriend gets so drunk he

My boyfriend gets so drunk he blacks out and pees anywhere. It's happend too many times to count and the fact that people think its a funny thing makes me a litte mad. Any time he drinks Im awake all night I make him pee before he falls asleep but it still happens. He thinks it's no big deal but it's happening more often and besides the fact that it's annoying to wake up and change sheets and wash clothes and anything else I'm afraid he's ignoring to ruin something expensive. It's also creating big problems with our relationship because I want him to hit drinking and I know he won't. Beside the peeing problem I could care less how much he drinks he doesn't cheat, get mean, or drive and always goes to work and get the things he needs to do first. I love him with all my heart but I'm honestly scared of waking up soaked with his pee, the bed soaked, drawers of clothes soaked, furniture and laundry baskets soaked. With a baby on the way and limited space for baby's things I'm afraid he's going to ruin the stuff when we put it in our room. Im wish there was something to make him take this serious. I try to get him to see it my way but since he doesn't remember the things he does it's never going to change. I'm glad I'm not the only one that has this issue it makes me feel a little better.

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I would do this .....

Last night my boyfriend of 5 years peed again this time he walked to my side of the bed and pissed all over my books the dresser. The whole time I'm yelling at him to stop n all he would say is he can't. And when he did stop he stood there a min as I was telling him that he was so nasty that he needs help he starts to oee again. Then he took a very old nitted place mat I had on the dresser and wiped his peker with it. This miring he doesn't remember. And acts like its no big deal. So my plan tonight is to perpusly pee on something of his and pretend I don't know what he's talking about and hopefully he will start to understand how bad it is.

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Sleepwalking after drinking

On two ocassions after drinking heavily and going to bed, I have awakened at dawn lying on the ground in the woods with no idea where I am, wearing only my underwear that I usually sleep in. Once was while on vacation in Aruba and the second was when I was at a business conference. Both times I walked in one direction until finding a road. In Aruba, I recognized the road and walked a short distance back to the hotel. On the second occasion, a kind-hearted police officer carried me several miles back to the hotel and dropped me off at the rear entrance incognito. Otherwise, I had no idea where I was.

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so this past saturday i went

so this past saturday i went to a bar with some friends and i got pretty hammered, but not black out drunk. i haven't drank like that in at least 5 or 6 months. i woke up sunday morning and my friend said that her mom was pissed that i was still there (i crashed for the night) and so i was pretty much kicked out with no explanation and with a raging hangover. it wasn't until today that i was told that i had woken up in the middle of the night, went into my friend's parent's room, walked to this laundry basket on the floor, pulled down my pants and peed in the basket. WTF. she said it was a huge ordeal, but i have no recollection of it at all. everything else about that night i can remember except for that. so, my explanation: sleep walking. but i have never done that before to my knowledge, so i'm shocked. i don't know if it's my level of stress or exhaustion that led to my sleep walking, but either way, i'm completely embarrassed and most likely banned from that house for quite some time. now i'm super nervous to go drinking again, which sucks since my 21st bday is literally right around the corner. but reading all these other stories is kinda comforting since i know i'm not the only one to do this humilating escapade.

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it fukin stinks

its just started happenin im 26 and ive dun it twice sleepwalked and weed on my bedroom rug in the same place as i did it 4 weeks ago i no nothing about it untill i wake up and stand on the wet smelly rug ive cleaned it loads but the smell wont go its really strong we smell wat shall ido and wat is wrong with me why this happenin wen i black out drunk

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White vinegar

Try white vinegar and soap.

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well

So I got hammered last night...first time in about 6 months. Woke up to a text, so you basically peed on the floor, my TV (that was on the floor, not a new TV and old tube, your suite(I worked a charity auction so I was dressed nice)..

I would ask why but I know the answer....because I was drunk.

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Drunk sleep walk pissing

So i like to drink. I like to get really drunk when I drink. On three separate occasions (all recently) I have sleep walked/pissed on something after getting black out drunk.

The first time was at a party. I got super drunk and passed out, like usual. I woke up in the morning, got up, and went home. Later that day I start getting calls. I had sleepwalked into the living room and pissed on someone sleeping on the couch. And then apparently peed in my sleep on myself. Extremely embarrassing.

The second time was at a friends house. We had been partying around town that night and decided to go back to his house to do some drinking and pass out. There was about 5 of us total. I got drunk and blacked out. At some point I had gone into my friends room where he and his girlfriend had been sleeping, grabbed the trashcan, moved it in front of the door, leaned on the door, and peed in the trashcan. Afterwards I walked to the closet, grabbed a pair of her shoes, and put them on. When my friend noticed me and asked what I was doing I told him I was putting some shoes on.

The third time happened about a month after the second time. I went to a girls house with two friends. We sat around the table playing drinking games with her and her room mate. I passed out on the couch and woke up with a huge snake on my face. (I have no recollection of this). I hate snakes. I got up and started yelling at her. I then walked across the hall into her room mates room and pissed on her bed. The only part I remember is getting kicked out of her house.

Anyways happy pissing and try not to black out if you're not at your own house.

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A while back I woke up after

A while back I woke up after a night out and the bottom of my trousers and my socks were wet. I didn't think much of it and forgot all about it. Last night when I came home from a party I felt sober. I had something to eat and got into bed like I normally would, and then I went asleep. Only today I was told that I went into my brothers room and pissed right beside him. Then I pulled up my bottoms and went downstairs in the dark for a walk. After turning on and off the light, I put my legs up on the kitchen table and closed my eyes. When asked "what the hell was I doing", I replied that I was "going asleep for God's sake". All day I've hated myself and felt extremely humiliated. This site has actually helped me because now I know that I'm not the only one. I don't think I'll drink again - for a while anyway.

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So embarrassed :(

So last night I decided to drink some rum. I didn't think I drank to much. Anyways I went pee and went to bed like normal. I faintly remember a pee in my dream. I forgot everything this morning until my grandma told me my brother was pissed. Apparently I pissed in the middle of his floor, then took his blanket from him and went to sleep on his bed. I woke up to him kicking me asking for his cover and when I went to go to my bed I stepped in a huge piss puddle and took my socks off and put them in the laundry room. I have to say as embarrassing as that was it was also funny as hell.

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36 years old - This started recently...

Like many, my sleepwalking/peeing is related to drinking. I will drink usually 1-2 times a week, but I tend to overdo it when I do. I'm 37 and this started about a year ago... it's morally devastating to me. While many seem to think it's funny in their own experience I'm terrified.

I've drank my whole life, but not like an alcoholic at all, and I've been wasted MANY times so I'm kind of surprised this has suddenly started! I'm definitely scared of drinking now...

Usually I wake up in the morning with a big damp spot on my carpet, which is obviously urine as it can't be anything else...I had a previous roommate who said he was awoken by the sound of running water in the kitchen but didn't investigate. The next morning he saw a ton of water on the floor and told me he thinks I had pissed on the floor, as he definitely heard me outside in the kitchen at the same time. Obviously I had no recollection.

Months went by, and I drank from time-to-time and nothing. But now I've drank 3 times this month and it's happened EVERY time. I blackout sleepwalk and pee, as I've said mostly on my carpet next to my bed.

I drank last night and was relieved there was no puddle on my carpet this morning. Then I went out to the kitchen and my socks that I wore to bed were on the floor and damp! I was freaked out since my new roommate always has his girlfriend over and they get up real early in the morning for work. They had already left. I panicked all day wondering if they had witnessed anything!!

When I saw him he told me that he thinks we might have a leak in the kitchen as there was water on the floor when he left for the gym this morning, and he asked about my socks. I told him I had drunkenly dropped our Brita water cooler which hold several gallons on the floor and was too drunk to clean it up...he bought it.

I'm not pushing my luck. No more drinking, unless it's 1 or 2 going out with my friends where I'll be eating and not consuming too much. I can't get smashed anymore as the idea of this intruding on the lives of others really frightens me.

There is only one answer - stop drinking. I feel like I've sunk to a low I'll never live down in my own mind...

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brotha, it happens

i think, when it happens to me, i'm subconsciously saying "fuck the world" - you'll notice that you do it somewhere to make this "statement".

i just pissed on my iphone, and it feels..... liberating.

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your shame

I just wanna say that it is not that serious..calm down..geeze

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The father of my child does this constantly when he drinks and no matter what I say or how angry I am it continues to happen. How is this not that serious? I don't think you understand how disruptive this is for the people that have to clean up after these drunken piss walks. I've had to explain it to room mates and I've had my personal belongings completely ruined by piss...this includes one of a kind pics of my dead father. Its disgusting and I don't find one bit of it funny. For you to act so nonchalantly about it speaks volumes about your little problem. I am considering leaving this man even though I love him because I absolutely cannot tolerate having to play lookout every time he has a few beers. Do yourself a favor and stop drinking if you have this problem....obviously drinling is not benefitting you in any way. I know its embarassing and shit but seriously you could huurt yourself and others. God forbid I try and wake him up.

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Y should the calm down

It is a big deal for those who have done it because it affects their lifes

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Angry.

Last night my boyfriend got h-a-m-m-e-r-e-d. And I mean hammered, shitfaced, totally out of it drunk. I woke up in the middle of the night to the sound of running water. I used to wet the bed when I was like 5 or so and that sound has always snapped me right out of bed! I look over to behold the sight of my drunk boyfriend standing up and peeing on the floor next to our bed, all over the new clothes I just bought earlier that day. Couldn't believe it so I googled, "What to do when your boyfriend pees on your stuff" and got to this page. I would just like to note that he wasn't sleepwalking, he's just a drunk asshole.

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Oh my, I just googled the

Oh my, I just googled the same thing so you're not alone!
My boyfriend did it last night, stood up and pee'd on our bed. I slapped him to try to get him to realise what he was doing, but nothing. Finally he walked out of the room so I thought he was going to the bathroom, but no, he stood at the top of the stairs and carried on pee-ing. Then tried to get back into the wet bed as I was taking off the sheets. There was no stopping him. Finally I left him curl up in the pee'd on sheet and left him shivering for the night while I took our spare duvet. A while he got up again and walked into the bathroom. I followed to make sure he was going in the toilet, but he was just standing there, I asked what he was doing and he said "waiting for that guy to finish". (Obviously there was no other guy there). This is the only part of the night that made me laugh. I'm still absolutely livid over everything else and the thought of having a pee smell coming from our bedroom just makes me feel so sick.