Sexual Attraction Among Humans
Biology 103
2002 First Paper
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Sexual Attraction Among Humans
Diana Fernandez
Being a heterosexual female, in the twenty first century, I pride myself on the fact that I take people at more than face value, that I appreciate human beings for their character rather than for their looks. I scoff at women who proclaim that they will not date a guy unless he has substantial material assets, a broad back, and good breeding. Yet why do I find myself making conversation with physically attractive males while blowing the off more unattractive ones? Why does my head whip around when I see a man in a Porsche? Why do my male friends all have the same prerequisites for the perfect female despite race and ethnicity: perky breasts, slim waist, and full lips? Despite most people's lofty notions of equality, and beauty being in the eye of the beholder, we are all susceptible to certain physical, and material traits that make some humans more desirable than others. Perhaps we cannot punish ourselves for our weakness when we see beautiful and successful people, part of the answer lies in the biology and evolution of humans. Males and females have different standards for a desirable mate, and we share many of these characteristics with other animals in the animal kingdom, yet these instincts are inherent for a reason: reproduction.
"As unromantic and pragmatic as it may seem, nature's programming of our brains to select out and respond to stimuli as sexually compelling or repelling simply makes good reproductive sense"(1) . Recent studies have indicated that certain physical characteristics stimulate a part of the brain called the hypothalamus, which is followed by sensations such as elevated heart rate, perspiration, and a general feeling of sexual arousal. So what visual queues instigate these feelings of sexual arousal in men? How does it differ from what women find attractive? "A preference for youth, however, is merely the most obviously of men's preferences linked to a woman's reproductive capacity"(2). The younger the female the better the capacity for reproduction, hence attributes that males find attractive and contingent on signs of youthfulness. "Our ancestors had access to two types of observable evidence of a woman's health and youth: features of physical appearance, such as full lips, clear skin, smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, and features of behavior, such as a bouncy, youthful gait, and animated facial expressions"(2) . Cross-cultural studies have found that men, despite coming from different countries find similar traits attractive in females. Men's preferences are biologically and evolutionarily hardwired to find signs of youth and health attractive in women in order to determine which females are best suited to carry on their gene, and legacy. Healthier and more youthful women are more likely to reproduce, and be able to take care of the children after birth, hence ensuring a perpetuation of the male's gene.
Scientist's have also been establishing that scent plays an important role in deeming females attractive. At certain points during their menstrual cycle women produce more or less estrogen accordingly. During certain times thought the menstrual cycle their sent can be more or less appealing to males. "A research team reports in the Aug. 30 NEURON that the brains of men and women respond differently to two putative pheromones, compounds related to the hormones testosterone and estrogen. When smelled, an estrogen like compound triggers blood flow to the hypothalamus in men's brains but not women's, reports Ivanka Savic of the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm"(3) .
Men are not the only ones subject to biological predispositions in deeming attraction. "Women are judicious, prudent, and discerning about the men they consent to mate with because they have so many valuable reproductive resources to offer"(2) . Men produce sperm by the thousands, yet women produce about 400 eggs in their lifetime, and the trials of pregnancy and child rearing are long and arduous, hence their preferences and what they find sexually attractive in a male are based more on security and longevity of relationships. Athletic prowess is an important attribute to most women that hearkens back to the beginning of man. An athletic and well-muscled male is more likely to be a good hunter hence provide for a family. Large and athletic male can also provide physical protection from other males.
I was speaking to one of my male friends the other day when he mentioned that when he was in a bar speaking to an attractive girl, he always lied about his profession, telling them he was either a lawyer, doctor, or investment banker. What do all of these professions have in common? Money. Women are attracted to a successful male because this is indicative of his ability to provide for a family. This is a desirable trait that is shared by females thought the animal kingdom. "When biologist Reuven Yosef arbitrarily removed portions of some males' (Gray shrike, a bird that lives in the desert of Israel) caches and added edible objects to others, females shifted to the males with the larger bounties"(2) . Yet a man has had more than just the resources to attract a female, he also has to be willing to share them. Women tend to be attracted to more generous men because this is indicative of how they will treat them in the future, a man cannot withhold his resources from a female and their offspring.
Sexual attraction does have biological and evolutionary traits. Yet humans do have the ability to transgress the standardization of what is attractive. The topics that I touched upon can vary from person to person, yet are all inherently a part of the human species. We are not fully beyond the basic drives of our biological and evolutionary makeup, yet not all of our desires for a sexual mate are purely physical and material, there is always the mysterious capacity to fall in love and maintain a lasting relationship with one other person.
1. The evolutionary Theory of Sexual Attraction, a site posted by the university of Missouri, Kansas city.
2. Buss. The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating. New York: HarperCollins, 1994.
3. Brain Scans Reveal Human Pheromones, a news source found by encyclopedia brittanica when entered the search key word, "sexual attraction"
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08/11/2005, from a Reader on the Web awesome paper with a lot of great information! thank you, its a wonderful resource, i'm doing a speech on body chemistry and its a great help!
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Hi, informative and logical paper I am in my hunt for convincing a friend of mine about the natural requirement of procreation. Can you help me in the same, getting a good lot of resources to support the same.
They are of the opinion that WHY PROCREATE? THEY HAVE NOT FOUND A SATISFACTORY REASON.
Any support is appreciated Diana ... Teji, 6 April 2006
I find this stuff fascinating. If attraction is somewhat based on an instinctual desire to reproduce, I'm a little curios about why it seems homosexuals are not affected by this "inherent biological trait", It seems odd. Is/are there any known reasons or explanations for this? ... Lachlan, 22 September 2007
I dont agree with your views. I think human beings are above animals and tend to fall in love with one other person than just the physical characteristics and ability to provide ... Tobby, 29 September 2007
some of the people i know agree with the fact that men should behave as if they "don't give a damn" or "don't care" when they are with women.... because this would make them probably more misterious or independent (the men) ...and you know what? ...this really works!!! ....why is this? there are women who find this behaviour attractive ....if not all of them ...please explain this to me ..it really does happen in real life ... Mirel, 29 December 2007









Toby, you just proved
Toby, you just proved there's always one!
nice topic!
hi diana! youve picked a really nice topic. I have learned a lot somehow while I was reading it. I actually admire it, and I agree with you in terms of attraction. It is so funny how sometimes people brag to other people that they would never despise any unattractive individual and is actually welcome in terms of negotiating about courtship when in fact, they can't even afford to imagine themselves going with those unattractive ones.
Ignoring the incomplete
Ignoring the incomplete references, my problem with this discussion is its lack of acknowledgement of major theorists in this area. What happened to Darwin, Trivers, Dawkins et al? The ideas are there (in basic form) but there is so much more depth to this fascinating topic. I feel that this mere introduction does a disservice to the readers, who are seemingly forming their opinions of this important theory on this incomplete amble.
First a quick comment on the
First a quick comment on the above response. Dawkins was not a major theorist, he was a popularizer. Most of the major ideas presented in The Selfish Gene were merely the repackaged theories of Hamilton. If she ignored anyone, it was E.O. Wilson. As far as the essay goes, was this intended to be a complete synthesis of sexual mating strategy? If so, it failed miserable. However, my general impression was that it was mean to just be something to pique a layperson's interest, in which case it was probably mildly successful.
As to the content the only thing I would comment on are the speculations that we can transcend of "baser" animalistic drives and do things like "fall in love and form a lasting relationship" is absurd and shows a loose grasp of the concepts themselves. First, the staggering degree of divorces and extra-martial affairs (and more importantly, the predictability of said affairs in the behavior they exhibit), suggest that this is generally not the case. Second, why would love and lasting relationships be out of the constraints of evolutionary biology? There is a dearth of literature that is being flatly ignored here.
diana's paper on human sexual attraction
we should keep in mind that Diana's paper was apparently written for a low level (bio 103)course. It is up to the readers to recognize this fact and pursue the subject further. I have a hard time imagining even the most egotistical professor judging her effort this harshly. Was someone in your life really hard on you? If so, I am sorry.I say first have compassion for all of us on the path of life; offer support rather than criticism.
I am not a wealthy, tall, broad backed alpha male. And I am independent and a little self centered. And while people seem to like me, women don't generally swoon in my presence. So there is much in the article that seems threatening to my prospects for sexual conquest and female admiration.
Sex feels good and I'd like to have it all the time. What is always available to me is the opportunity to see others with love. When I can manage a little of that kind of grace, I feel really good. My soul wants love, my body craves sexual satisfaction.
This world is a harsh place sometimes, and I suspect that I don't know how bad it can really get.
Having the time and material resources to be here writing like this reminds me of a phrase that I heard a Buddhist teacher offer in a talk to a group in Sonoma County CA about suffering, he said: "You people have jacuzzi suffering"
Love to you all.
Uhm . . .
If this is true, then why do people fall in love with someone that is not of good physical shape? How can you explain those who are friends with someone who they don't find physically attractive in their view and eventually love them? It doesn't make sense. I think it's based not only on some preferred looks and aspects, but personality has a lot to do with it.
Move forward from here
Diana youve probably have read all the opninions and comments from different angles and they are from the windows that you have not looked into.Absorb,think and moved forward from here.Your paper is not complete if you have not been tested on all sides.good job.
left handedness in women
Hi. I seem to find that left handedness in women makes them even more sexy and watchable, although it doesn't make any difference if i don't find them attractive. Am I a freak ? and is there a name for this>
Sexual attraction stimulating blood flow into brain and the rest
I am a potentially "heterosexual" person (single) biologically (in particular psychologically), because I feel the massive blood flow into my brain and male organ, when I watch a photo of pretty nude young girls, but not when I watch a similar photo of any men.
So I wonder how this specific "visual" stimulus in eyes activates the brain to
let the blood flow into the particular area(s) of our body, without female (or male) pheromone(s) and any (personal or social) background knowledge about people in the photo. I am not talking about either courtship or falling in love, but a simple "biological" (but probably "educated") reaction.
It would be of great interest to track down the specific area of our brain which is activated by such a visual stimulus, and find any detectable difference between hetero-sexual person (men and women) and homo-sexual counterpart, if this still remains in "unknown" territory.
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