Mifepristone..."The Abortion Pill": The Facts

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Mifepristone..."The Abortion Pill": The Facts

Sujatha Sebastian

On September 28, 2000 the Food and Drug Administration after several years of research approved Mifepristone, better known as the "abortion pill", for distribution in the United States. The FDA's decision will have a definite impact on women's health care in the United States. There will be social and medical repercussions. The drug has caused controversy not only in antiabortion groups, but in Pro-Choice groups as well. Critics are worried that an abortion available in pill form will be "too easy". They are worried that use of the pill will be abused. What many people do not realize is that while Mifepristone will be beneficial to women's health care, it is not without side effects. In light of all the recent coverage that the "abortion pill" has been given in the media, and all the misinformation surrounding it, I decided researching that Mifepristone would be interesting and helpful. The purpose of my paper is to discover how Mifepristone works, how it is administered, and to look at its side effects. I want to demonstrate the benefit Mifepristone will be to women's health care, while showing that it is not an "easy" solution to abortion.

"Mifepristone, formerly known as RU-486, is a medical alternative to aspiration abortion."(1) It works by blocking progesterone from being absorbed into the uterus. When this happens the uterus sheds the endometrium (lining in the uterus, therefore inducing menstruation. (2 When Mifepristone is used as a method for abortion is it administered as part of a three step process. The first step is that 200 mg of Mifepristone is given orally in a doctor's office. Then within 24 to 48 hours the patient is given 400 mg a drug called Misoprostol either orally or in a suppository form. Misoprostol, which is a synthetic hormone, is used to get the cervix to soften and dilate as well as getting the uterus to relax. The embryo is then expelled.(2) This is supposed to happen approximately fours hours after the administration of the drug. The final step is an examination by a medical professional to make sure the abortion is complete. (2)

There are restrictions as to who can use this medical method of abortion. It is only intended for women to use up to nine weeks after their last menstruation period. Women who are under 18 or over 35, epileptic, diabetics, or suffering from heart, lung, kidney, liver, stomach or intestinal disorders are ineligible. As are women who have taken steroids within the past 12 months, or deemed overweight or a heavy smoker. Women who have used an IUD or hormonal contraceptive within three months prior to conception are not allowed to take Mifepristone as well.(2)

Like any drug or medical method there are side effects to using Mifepristone and Misoprostol. It is the number of side effects and degree of each that critics argue about. The FDA has determined that taking Mifepristone does cause various degrees of pain. Short term physical effects can be pelvic pain, vaginal bleeding, nausea, diarrhea, and fatigue.(2) There are psychological side effects as well. In some cases products of the conception are visualized. (3)

The use of Mifepristone will have a definite impact on reproductive freedom in this country and the world. (3) It is seen as less invasive procedure which gives the woman more freedom and privacy. In the United States it has been reported by the Alan Guttmacher Institute that eighty-nine percent of the abortions occur in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. Mifepristone will allow women another option to terminate a pregnancy in its early stages. (2) Twenty-four percent of the world's population lives in places where abortion is not legal. (3) As a result a significant population of women perform their own abortions or receive illegal abortions which kills them. The medical method of abortion would allow women in these areas of the world to receive a safe method of abortion.

A major issue that critics of Mifepristone have is that they feel that the drug will allow abortions to become "too easy". But the drug is only administered in a medical office and requires at least three visits. The last visit is an examination to see that the abortion is complete and that the mother is in good health. Before the patient is given Mifeprex tablets (Mifepristone) she must sign an agreement in which she acknowledges that there are side effects, that there is a three step process, and that 5 to 8 women out of every hundred do not have successful medical abortions and need surgical abortions . (5) Critics worry that the drug will cause an increase in the number of women who have abortions. Supporters of the drug cite the fact that in France, where the drug is manufactured and was first administered, there has not been an increase in the abortion rate. (2)

Mifepristone will change the way that abortions are administered. This method gives a woman more autonomy and does not require her to go through surgical procedure. It can also prevent pregnancy by taken as soon as a day after she has had intercourse. This new method will allow more women to have access to safe abortions. Mifepristone opens the door to a new area of medicine in which previously surgical procedures are now approached in a medical manner. Whether in support of or against Mifepristone one has to recognize the new technology the drug represents.

One of the problems I had when researching information was finding unbiased information. Both pro and anti Mifepristone groups used "research" and statistics to their benefit. Distinguishing the difference between opinion and fact was difficult. This is especially true because there is not a lot of accurate information about Mifepristone published by reliable sources. This is due to the fact that Mifepristone has just recently been approved by the Food and Drug Administration. Mifepristone that will be beneficial to women's health care and medicine. But one must realize that it is not without side effects and cannot be seen as an "easy" solution to abortion.

 

WWW Sources

1)www.plannedparenthood.org/mifepristone.html, Mifepristone

2)www.rascalnut.com/naral.ohio/RU486.html, The Facts about Mifepristone (RU 486)

3)www.mja.com.au/public/issues/sep15/henshaw/henshaw.html, Mifepristone

4)http://jinx.sis.unsw.edu.au/~greenlft/1994/137/137p28htm, "Abortion Pill": A Woman's Right to Choose by, Kath Gelber

5)www.popcouncil.orgrhpdev/mifeprex/patient%5Fagreement.html,The Patient Agreement Mifeprex (Mifepristone) Tablets

6) www.pages.map.com/lroberge/ru486.htm, RU486: The Hidden Effects by Lawrence F. Roberge

6) www.nrlc.org/ru486/propsedFDAregs.html, RU486 *Please note that some of the sources read during my research were from biased sources (the National Right to Life Committee web site for example). Facts were not used from these sources in my paper. These sources were instead used to discover the arguments anti-Mifepristone groups had and to see the false information they were publishing about the drug.

 

 

Continuing conversation
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08/06/2005, from a Reader on the Web

I took that pill and almost blead to death now i have have to say it's not as easy as it sounds it is very painful like child birth but more blooder atleast for me i now have endromitrious and may have to have my women parts removed i had nothing before i took those pills i'm 37 so i'm just saying better think it out before you take it because it's dangerious i have a son who is 18 it was easier for me to have him then go through childbirth than taking those pills becuse i'm still not well and it has been 7 months


10/10/2005, from a Reader on the Web

For what it's worth, I though I'd share my personal experience using Mifepristone almost a month ago.. After having made the difficult choice to abort, I learned of this pill as an alternative option to having the traditional surgical procedure. Of course, as anyone would, I opted to try the pill because it seemed -less- painful and was something I could do in the privacy of my own home. After having been given the first pill, Mifepristone, at the doctors office on a Friday afternoon, I finished out my day at work with minimal side-effects at that point. The Mifepristone made me slightly sick to my stomach, but compared to the ongoing morning sickness I'd been going through, it wasn't so bad. (ha ha) Misoprostol was the next step, given to me in the form of 4 tablets, to be inserted vaginally myself at home. I was also given a full bottle of Vicodin, as well as a bottle of 800mg Ibuprophen for the pain the doctor anticipated I would encounter (this worried me a little). Late Satuday afternoon, I'd say around 4:30pm, scared to death not knowing what to expect once everything started, and knowing I couldn't turn back now, I inserted the tablets and took 1 Vicodin as directed. About 30 minutes from the time I did this I began to have cramping comparable to what you would feel during a typical menstrual period.. but not for long. Within an hour I had severe cramping.. I'd been warned the pain could equal that of actual child-birth contractions, and this must have been it. (I've never had a child, so I can only imagine) I was to the point of feeling like I would pass out if the pain didn't let up when I passed the first, and largest, portion of what -was- the pregnancy.. Many people will tell you that all you'll see is blood and clots, and it's unlikely anything will look like actual tissue.. but mine sure did.. Large masses of gray tissue were expelled for the following numerous hours. Somewhere close to midnight that night I felt relief enough to know it was over.. or so I thought. 4 days after this, while I -should- have been feeling more or less back to normal, I began to experience increasing pain in my abdomen. I called and spoke with my doctor about this, but felt as though she didn't seem concerned at all. No more than 2 hours after hanging up the phone I developed a fever that shot through the roof out of nowhere, and my heart began beating unbelieveably TOO fast. The "increasing pain" in my abdomen now had me laying in bed, hardly able to move. I called my mother who left work and rushed to my home to get me. I couldn't even get out of bed to let her in when she arrived I hurt so bad. I ended up in the emergency room that afternoon with a heartbeat of 143 beats/min.. (Check your own and then you'll see just how high 143 is) and a 103 temperature I ended up fighting to keep away for the next 4 days. To make a long story short, that first afternoon I spent over 8 hours in a treatment room in the emergency area before they got my vitals under control and discovered the cause of everything.. The abortion pill I used began attacking my own body in a sense, and began a horrendous infection in my uterus. In the end I spent a week in the hospital on 3 of the most potent anti-biotics available, as well as some heavy-duty narcotic pain killers, while specialists from the surrounding hospitals kept watch over me constantly. It's now been almost a month since then, and I still have to have blood work done, as well as ultrasounds every now and then to keep monitoring my recovery. I have constant sharp pains in my abdomen and have been told the scar tissue left over from the infection may now keep me from becoming pregnant in the future.. It's all so much to deal with, and honestly, I don't think I've come to terms with everything yet. It still feels like a bad dream. Regardless of my experience with the pill and side effects it caused me, I can still step back and look at the broad picture of things.. The majority of women who use this method have no problems, and for them, this is a good way to go. I really do think it's a better choice for most, than to have the surgical abortion.. BUT - be warned.. It's not "easy" using the pill, and there's no way to know how you're body will react to it. I never knew I'd go through the things I did because of it. This is definitely not something to be looked at as the "new contraceptive" either, as some are saying. It's so risky, putting your body through something like this. It could take a toll on you that will effect the rest of your life. Like me.. Will I ever be able to have kids after everything that happened? Every woman out there should begin by being aware of how to avoid an unwanted pregnancy from the start. Such as life happens, and most protection only offers 99.9% effectiveness, we forget that's NOT 100%.. If you still become pregnant and choose to abort, do your homework.. read about all possibilities, and all side effects for each.. then decide what's best for you. I think the pill is a great option.. but be careful, it's certainly not without it's flaws.

 

Additional comments made prior to 2007
It has been almost 2 months since I had made the painful decision to get an abortion. I am only 18 years old so you could imagine hoe scary it was for me. After they examined me and told me how far I was they put me in this rome with a female doctor so I can take the oral pill that actually determines the pregnancy. When I took that pill, I felt fine until I had to get something in my stomach, I couldn't even eat my stomach was turning so bad. the doctor told me that I could insert the four pills vaginally anytime between then and 48 hours after the visit. I decided to insert them that night to get it over with and about an hour after it was literally hell. I was vomiting,bleeding perfusely, and experiencing pain more severe then I had ever felt before. To make a long story shorter, it has been about 2 months and I still haven't exactl stopped bleeding. I am young and afaid to go get checked because of it, and my life will never be the same. I had no choice my situation at the time wasn't what I wanted and now I will always regret it ... Reader on the web, 12 August 2007

 

 

I used the pill around february of '07. I was 6 1/2 weeks and I guess I didnt really know what I was getting myself into. I took the first pill which I had no side effects to. When I took the second one the next day, it was almost immediate cramping. Basically the worst cramps I had ever had. I was puking, had diarrea, and was in so much pain I was balled up on the couch crying. I guess I was a "lucky" one because my horrible cramps only lasted about an hour until I passed the birth tissue and then they subsided. Although I bled for a month after that (most of it not heavy), I completly regret it to this day. All I can ever think about is a perfectly beautiful child is now in a sewer somewhere. It's horrible, but thats how I think of it now. I wish I could go back and change things. I wish I never did it. All I hope is that it didnt hurt my chances of having a child in the future ... Reader on the web, 13 September 2007

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Serendip Visitor life's hard's picture

It really has been a nightmare

I also am 22 yrs old and oddly enough just moved from FL to NJ just about 2 months ago. Hav no friends,family just my bf and his mom. My bf and I really didnt think I was pregnant at first until I started showing hard core signs of it. Took 2 HPTs and both came out positive. I never in my life ever considered abortion but really had no choice. Hav no health insurance and barely make enough money as is with my part time job. At first we really considered to keep it but as soon as we told his mom she talked some sense into us. Went to planned parenthood to find out for sure I was. Got a few listings wher to go for the abortion. Reluctantly after all my confusion and pains I was getting set up an appointment to just get the abortion. Really was unsure of how far along I was. Anyways went to the abortion clinic and was told I was just about 8 wks and wasnt even sure if I could take the pill or not. That right ther was a bit alarming. The doc checked to make sure the medical was alright to go thro with and it was. After even being handed the first pill still was unsure and didnt want to. At that point had already known I was pregnant for over 2 weeks. You really get attached. I took the pill and felt fine the first day. The second day had very minimal cramping and just some light spotting. Then the third day I had to take the 4 pills between my gums for 30 mins and let dissolve..very chalky..within less than 30 mins the cramps started. I had taken 3 advil an hr before hand. Really did not help. Took some time to start bleeding and once I did only really happened when I was standing up. I started getting diarriah and the bleeding got worse and worse as time progressed. About 4 hrs in passed a blod clot and thought that was the fetus but turns out it wasnt cuz just an hr later felt the need to push something out and ther it was. As graphic as it is I actually saw the fetus. Didnt look lik much but looked just lik all the pictures online at that time of gestation. It really hit me then. I wish I hadnt seen it. The bleeding still wasnt letting up until about the 2nd night. By that time the cramps had gone away but still bleeding. Its been 2 weeks and 2 days since I had taken the 4 pills and am still spotting. Turned out today when I went for my 2 week check up ther was still tissue left and my test result is positive. Idk wat that means but I was given another 8 pills I hav to take 2 at a time twice a day. I'm really scared and just want this nightmare to be over already. Not having any friends or family was really hard thro it all. I've learned my lesson and as soon as I can am going on birth control. I want to have kids of my own someday and it was really hard to make this decision. I hav times wher I regret it but ther really was nothing I could do. Please wish me luck on getting this to just be over already. I'm really scared.

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Hey hun, drop me mail and

Hey hun,

drop me mail and I'll discuss it with you.

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im not sure how to find your

im not sure how to find your email..ive never posted anything on this site..if you can see mine feel free to email me

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Dear Friend, I hope this

Dear Friend,

I hope this really helps you out. I am also a mother of three and have a great husband. I will share my experience with you. I had a very hard time with coming to terms on my decision. Me and my husband seperated for a while and in the year we were seperated he has a beautiful six month old girl. Our children are 13, 11 and 5. Its is not the first time I had to do this. With the fact that you are very early you can still take the pill. I will tell you the side effects are great and the pain is worse that child birth. I cried for 8 hours do to the severe pain. It also last so long, the bleeding that is. I difinately recommend you have someone by your side through this process. If you are not oppose going through the surgery is much better. The pain is not nearly as bad as the pill and then it is also over much quicker. Alot less bleeding as well. If I could do it over I would. I will never recommend the pill to anyone ever. Emotionally you will recover from this. You have two children who will need all of your focus when there father is gone. You will thinking about it from time to time and wonder the what if's. I think that just means you are human. I commend you for making the decision but its not an easy situation. I hope that I have truely helped you.

Pinky Malaza's picture

Mefiprostone/Mefiprostol use

Tenks sista, ive also taken it. It has been only a day and the pain I cant stand it. The problem I am at work and I am afraid to tell anyone about this. I think I will cope since I now know what to expect.

Tenk

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I was always pro life also. I

I was always pro life also. I got pregnant at 17 and already had a 2 year old. I never dreamed I would have an abortion but I just couldn't imagine having another child and I did it out of selfish reasons. It's also against my beliefs as a Christian but at the time I wouldn't even think about it. I just did it. It's not the right thing to do and you and your husband can have another child and will be able to support this child. It always works out. Trust me I think about my child everyday and I wonder what he/she would have been like. It's very very hard and if your already emotional about it then it's going to be a very hard. I'll be praying for y'all. I know it's hard but y'all can do it. And if you have this child you will look back and think how did I even think about aborted him/her. You will love this sweet baby so much just like your others. Email me if you want to talk ! I'll be praying for y'all.!

abbie's picture

Scared=(

Im so scared i took the plan b and still havent started my period so im goin in for an appointment this week to get checked to see if i am pregnant and if not get on birth control if i am i plan on taking the pill but am scared becuase my mom doesnt no and i dont have any good excuses for it and am in sports does anyone no if u can get the pill on your first appiontment because i dont want it to be too late

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WORRIED SICK ABOUT THE PILL

Iam glad I found this website! I have my appt to have the pill next friday, August 12th. I found out I was prego a week ago and have been a nervous wreck! I have two beautiful daughters and can not have anymore. Last summer I went through a horrible pregnancy. I was six months prego and found out my baby had a rare birth defect and would have to termenate the pregnancy. We were so happy about the baby and this was absoulutly devistating news. My only option was to have the labor induced and have them put a needle through my stomache and end my baby's life. It was the worst experience Ive ever been through. I was in labor for 2 days. I had csections with both of my daughters and never had labor before. It was terrible. I was then put on the birth control shot. the shot made me sick the entire time. I have migraine headaches so I cant get on birth control, period. Thats why Iam 35 and in the situation Iam in. I was told if I get prego again I would have to be taking folc acid or a year and the baby might be healthy. I realy dont have a choice to keep it. Iam still getting over loosing my little girl last year! I have had an abortion before, surgical and it was a pretty tramatic event for me and no way could I go through that again. I started looking around or my options. I month ago I saw my dr to set up appt to get my tubes tied. My dam insurance wouldnt cover it and now Iam pregnant! My oldest daughter has been locked up for a year because she was having some issues with authority and will be home in two weeks! I wont get into that, but let just say life hasnt been that good to me in a long long time and now this! I have to be here for my dautghter. She needs me now more than ever. Iam just not sure I made the right decision on the pill. From the time I wake up in the morning till I go to bed I cant stop thinking about it. Iam so afraid that I will die from this or get so ill that I wont be there for my daughter. I cant afford to be sick. It just helps to be able to rant a little! I cant talk to anyone about this. I have spent hours looking online and researching. I cant take pain meds for the pain. The nurse told me that it will be pretty dang painful! I have other medical conditions that I cant take pain meds, thats why I cant go through with the surgery. Anyone reads this and is going through this and wants to talk please holler at me. I will update my experience with the pill next week!

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So how was your experience

So how was your experience and how do you feel emotionally

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SCARED

I'm extremely nervous about all of this. I took the first pill today and must complete the rest of the process tomorrow..I would like for experienced ppl to tell me how severe are the cramps UNBEARABLE or TOLERABLE?

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Dont be scared

I took the 1st pill on Friday and then the 2nd one on Saturday. I have some cramping but not too bad. I am still bleeding and think I will for a while. Take all the antibiotics so that you do not get an infection. If you feel pain take your pain medicine. Hope you have a good recovery.

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don't be afraid

i came to this website about 5 days ago when i decided to terminate my 5 week pregnancy with the abortion pill and was terrified that i was going to be screaming in pain and bleeding like there is no tomorrow. i am actually writing this right now as i lay in bed 2 hours after taking my pills. i have some pretty bad cramps that come and go and i am bleeding a little more than my usual. but in no way am i dying in pain. Also the people at the clinic were very nice and made me feel very comfortable. i am so thankful to have a supporting boyfriend and family without them i would be lost. i am also thankful that i have the right to choose and when i am a little older and finish college i will have children and provide them with the life i can. i hope whoever reads this feels a little better about their decision.

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no worries

This is exactly how I am feeling. i could have not gone through this without a caring boyfriend and family and a best friend there to help me cope. I was also nervous because i want to finish out college rather than struggle though it with a baby. I was so scared when i first decided to take the pill! I was so nervous at first about getting the pill that when i was in the doctors office i fainted! but yesterday (sunday Aug 7th) at around 230 i took tylenol with codeine and then at 3 took the 4 pills orally. i was SO nervous, as to what you said i was afraid i was going to be screaming bloody murder. But right now it is 730 on Monday morning and I haven't felt much. All saturday night i have laid in bed waiting for unbearable pain with a heating pad on my stomach, but it never really came. It feels no more painful than a normal period. the only thing I am worried about is if it is actually working for me? ive had blood clots in the beginning so i am hoping i passed it then, also the nurse said i was really early so maybe that is why it is going easy for me.

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my experience

I am posting this anonymously and will not be checking this site afterwards. I am considering this post a way of closing this chapter. This is meant for all the women out there who were in a terrifying and anxiety-filled situation, just like me. Please ignore the haters and activists. Do not judge them, nor allow them to judge you. This is your decision for your life and your body. NO ONE else can decide anything for you. It is yours to make.

I felt nauseous and dizzy for the 2 weeks prior. I should have known sooner, since my period is always on time. I am in a committed relationship of 6 months and we stupidly did not use protection every time. I thought I had my ovulation calendar timed perfectly and would just not have sex/ use a condom on those days. I was stupid. Mistakes happen. USE PROTECTION PLEASE. Birth control is much much cheaper than an abortion... I digress...

I found out I was pregnant after taking 4 pregnancy tests and made my appointment on Monday July 25th. Waiting until my appointment on Friday the 29th was the hardest part. I just wanted it all to be over with. My insurance covers abortions, but I wanted the privacy and speed of Planned Parenthood. I must say, that although they are understaffed and overworked - they are EXTREMELY kind and nonjudgmental. I would go there again and pay twice as much if need be. I live in South Florida, and my medical abortion cost $495. I got to the clinic at 8:30 am and was out by 11:45. They took my blood for testing, gave me an ultrasound and provided counseling/ education as needed. They were very busy, but very kind.

During the ultrasound they gave me the option of seeing the fetus/knowing how far along I was. I chose not to know. I already calculated that I had to be 5 to 6 weeks along. I didn't want or need to know. But I think some people would be interested. I liked having the option. Also, there were a few girls there who seemed much more nervous than I. They were counseled, I could hear them going to another room that I didn't have to. I guess since I seemed so confidant and educated (from this site and the planned parenthood site) that I did not need the assistance. But once again - it was good to know there was the option.

The doctor gave me the first pill and watched me take it at 11:30 I signed the papers and left with 3 prescriptions. These were very useful. I got one for tylenol 3 with codeine, 800mg ibuprofen and something for nausea. They were generic and covered by insurance. Even without insurance they would only have been about $12 each. Fill these, they will save your life.

I took the 4 pills on Saturday July 30th at about midnight. An hour before I took 1 tylenol and 1 nausea pill. I actually fell asleep after taking the 4 pills and slept for about 4 hours. I woke up to some serious cramps, about as bad as the worse period cramps. I went to the bathroom and a very large clot came out. I had also soaked through a pad. I wish I hadn't fell asleep so I could have monitored better. But I was exhausted from a week of no sleep, feeling nauseous and worrying all night. That night was probably the best sleep I had gotten in a long time. I took some of the Ibuprofen and more nausea and fell back asleep. I got up a couple times to change my pad/ go to the bathroom. But the cramps were not bad due to the medicine. That stuff worked awesome. I luckily had Sunday off from work and just slept until 12. Although, I could have probably gotten up earlier. The pills helped me get back to feeling normal.

Sunday I bled like a heavy flow day. Not being used to pads, I was kinda worried about changing them frequently. But now it is Monday and the bleeding is down quite a bit. Still no tampons for a week, though. And I have my follow-up on Tuesday August 16th.

In closing, please don't let the negative comments discourage you. This decision might be hard for you, but if you feel it is right - than it is. Mine was an easy choice. I am a college student with a crappy part time job, a wonderful boyfriend and a supportive family. I didn't want to put them or myself through the pain and life changing process of an unwanted pregnancy. I KNOW without a doubt that I made the right decision. And some of the kind posts on this site made it that much easier. I did not tell anyone about this. I didn't need to. I am a grown woman and I know what is right for me. But if you feel alone, please reach out to others. There is help if you look for it, I promise.

Please be safe and kind to one another. We are all human and need help from time to time. It will all get better, do not give up on yourself. I love you and good luck to all my sisters out there.

~xoxo

Diane's picture

my experience

did you get your period yet?

torn and alone's picture

torn

I am scheduled to go take the first pill tomorrow but still very unsure..i already have two children whom i couldnt imagine my life without but i am a single mother working full time for minimum wage and not making it..this guy who i am pregnant by now has a son who he raises but he does not work and is in all sorts of trouble...he says he will not abandon this baby if i chose to have it however he doesnt want another child and makes a good point that neither one of us can afford it right now..and has given me the money to pay for the abortion. also i barely know this guy..stupid on my part i know but only knew him for a couple weeks when i became pregnant. i am very torn because with my first child my ex wanted me to have an abortion i was very young but i knew there was no way i could do it. and i must say i thank god everyday for my son he is the light of my life. my second i didnt want but still couldnt have an abortion and she is the most beautiful angel ever. ive always been prolife but circumstances have changed. i just simply am afraid i cant properly provide for another child. i dont get to see the two i have already due to working 2 counties away from where i live they stay at my fathers alot. i am terrified of how i am going to feel everythime i see and pregnant belly or a tiny baby..or in a year how regretful i may feel. another thing is yes i may have made this mistake and not want to live with it but what in this world gives me the right to take a life!?!? and oh my after reading some of the horror stories. thats scary stuff. has anybody had a decent experience with the pill????

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What did you decide to do

What did you decide to do

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Not as bad as has been made out.

I haven't had THAT bad a time. I have been through most of the experience alone, not to say I haven't told my partner I did at the last minute, but he is a bloke and i guess he feels uncomfortable talking about it.
So yeah, I found out i was pregnant two weeks ago. waited three days for an appointment at BPAS. (UK) and nothing was seen on the scan, so went back a week later and I then found out i was five weeks and two days. My last appointment was yesterday where i had the oral pill at ten o clock, and the pessaries (vaginal pill) at half three.
Having the pregnancy wasn't even an option for me. I am twenty one and due to start my univeristy degree in three weeks, I am in a long term relationship where we have been careful and on the contraceptive pill (cilest) and using the pull out method as a further form of contraception we had been clear from the strat of our relationship. No babies until after we finish our prospective degrees and can actually afford to look after it andgive it thing and oppurtunities I didn't have. (My mum was seventeen when she had me and I feel it has affected our relationship)We were so careful But it still happened to us.

Yesterday, after the last four interal pills. I was advised to take the codeine before the pain started. But stupidly I didn't. I wouldn't say the pain was agonising or terrible. It wasn't nice but, I felt I could bear it until after about five hours (I stupidly decided to go for a two hour drive as a passeneger with my friend) and being sat all curled up in the car was awful. Not ever being used to pads, I was so paranoid about bleeding through. But I didnt which was a major relief. when i got out to use the loo, what I can only describe as blobs, like jelly sort of came out which wasnt very nice to see but I was assured earlier in the clinic that it was only womb lining and nothing else nd the pregnancy was still only cells at this stage. After letting it do its thing, i continued o meeting my friend and stuff, I ust say I did feel a bit wozy at about nine, so i took two codeine. and these took the pain right down to nothinguntil i was curled back up in the car but when i was out. I was fine all night and took my antibiotics today and two codeine as more of a precaution than because i needed them. But yeah the bleeding is still what I would call heavy flow... like.. the first day of your period for instance. so nothing major. and it has lessened a lot since that first time on the loo after the journey. I must say i feel much better , so yeah hope this has helped
xxxx

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My experience

Many of these posts seem intended to scare people who are considering the pill. I took the early option pill (mifepristone and misoprostol) a few months ago because, like you, I knew I could not provide financially. If I am going to have a child, I intend to make sure that I can provide ideal circumstances. My husband is a student and I am a recent graduate - I have had no time to build a career or create a foundation for a little one. It's important that as women, we can control when a child is born - it is essential for his/her if a child is born, as well as our own. Emotionally, it was hard in the beginning, but I truly believe that I made the right decision, as hard as it was. Physically, the misoprostol (second pill) was the most painful and nauseating experience of my life, but it only lasted a few hours. I had intermittent cramping and bleeding for a few weeks following, and passed clots and runny tissue (no, I did not see an embryo or yoke sack - everything was red like blood). If you decide to go through with the procedure, make sure you are given antibiotics to prevent infection and take pain pills about an hour before (trust me, you will need it). If I had to do it over again I would, but I have no plans to do so and the mere thought of it makes me shudder. I do not see an embryo as life - I see it as potential for life. I may have decided to end the cycle, but when the time is right, I will bring a child into the world and they will have what they never could have prior. Good luck to you. Remember that you're not alone.

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Saturday

I have suffered with severe cramps and heavy bleeding during periods for ten years. Most of them made me wish that I were dead. However this was not caused by the pills. I will be taking the pills this Saturday mainly because I am only 19 and start college in a couple weeks. I start band camp this friday. Band is what pays my tuition, pregnancy will terminate my scholarship.
Reading some of these comments have really scared me, but when I think about the side effects given, that is actually how I feel every month. Maybe these pills will just be an extended regualar period for me.

My mind is torn because I've always been pro life. Yet what's inside of me does not feel alive. It wouldn't have a heart beat until a few more weeks. I wish I was atleast a few more years down the road with a career. Maybe I could have saved a life that awaits in me. Right now I'm just a student with no means of supporting a life other than my own. And if I am to bring a child into the world, I want it to be the right way in a marriage with the child having a stable home with his or her real parents like I was.

This is the hardest and most heart breaking decision I will ever make. And I can't even tell my parents.... I feel so alone. All my closest friends are virgins and here I am pregnant... they have no idea because I can't tell them either.

-Alone

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Don't look at this decision

Don't look at this decision as prolife or prochoice. It is much bigger then that. This is about you and your unborn. Are you ready to dedicate everything to a baby? That baby will need a lot of time moneys and support. Iam a mother of two children under three and I can tell you my whole day goes to these little ones. They are precious, yes! But until you are fully prepared to care for and support them you shouldn't attempt it. It is only fair that your precious baby be given the life they deserve, so wait until you are ready that way your life with your baby will be somehing that is cherished. When i was 16 i had to make the same hard decision and opted for a surgical abortion. Because as a teen i knew i was in no position to be a mother, at least not the great mother that i had alwaus pictured myself as (miss homemaker type). So i did something very hard that i still feel a little sad about when i look back. Because. Good people sometimes have to make tough decisions. But you arent bad for choosing your life right now. In the end it may be better to release that soul if you dont feel your ready. Only you know what you are mentally and finacially ready to handle at the moment. Make the desision that is right for you now. You are young and have time for a family later.

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hey.. you are really not

hey.. you are really not alone.xx ive just gone through this horrible decision..but had to do it for myself and my family. it's not a nice feeling or thing to do, but having had 3 beautiful children myself and being 38yrs, it was the best decision for me..my eldest son is now 20 an has cerebral palsey i was 19 when i had him and although i love him, and i'm so,so glad i have him, i lost my youth,i lost holidays away with friends,going out enjoying myself i grew up very quickly..at your age you have so much infront of you..these storys on here are just one persons account of what has happend to them..although it hasnt been a nice experiance, im good an im well and ok...you will make the right desisionx take care.x

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the abortion pill

In South Africa popping out babies is a big social issue. Kids as young as 13 have babies, get social grants, dont get educated, get infected with HIV and dont see their children grow up. The rate of HIV infection exceeds the birth rate, but the birth rate ironically exceeds the death rate. An HIV infected person can have 3 or 4 kids before he dies.And it happens. I have dealt with three unwanted pregnancies in my family. The first was my 18yr old sister when I was 20. My daughter was 2yrs old. My sister was also at college and varsity etc. She lived on her own far away from us. I accompanied her to the clinic and she had a horrendous experience. I heard everything and took her home again. It was awful. I fell pregnant again 5 yrs later and went to the gynie. She gave me a prescription for cytotec. Wow. It was quick and easy and no one had to know. Yes. I had cramps, but not as bad as labour and i bled for about 6 weeks which is not unlike after having a baby. I had no side effects. When my next younger sister fell pregnant right after her fist born, i told her about the cytotec and she took the rest of my prescription with no side effect. All three of us have since had successful pregnancies within stable relationships and without remorse or regrets. When you look at social circumstances you have to make the decision that is right for you. The decision that you know you can live with. If you deal with it maturely you wont have a problem. It doesnt come back to haunt you and it does not necessarily affect future conceptions. An unwanted pregnancy can only lead to an unwanted child that is likely to put a burden on society in one way or another.

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10 Day Update

I went for my follow up appointment today. Dr was real quiet during the ultrasound. I could tell by her face it was not clear. She said the pregnancy was definitely terminated, but I still had a fair amount of "debris". So, I had the option of taking 4 more pills or coming back for the D&C. I chose the later because she said there is no real guarantee that the pills will work. Also, in her opinion it was better to suffer 10 minutes of discomfort rather than a few hours of pain with the pills. I agree.

In short, I would never go through the medical abortion again. Why go through all that only to have to have a D&C anyway? I am really angry and upset right now. Think real hard before you make a decision. Complications with surgical abortions are rare and it is over immediately. Just my two cents. I will write another update after my D&C.

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12 weeks pregnant and going for pill abortion tomorrow

Hello I'm from England and could really use some help I'm nearly 12 weeks pregnant and going for the pills tomorrow and I'm worried as I have read that the pill abortion shouldn't be used if you are more than 9 weeks this has confused me as the hospital said it's fine and I have all ready took the first pill I'm so scared as I'm nearly 12 weeks that it will be more painful etc. Please can someone help

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if i was you i wouldnt take

if i was you i wouldnt take the pill since you 12 weeks into it. i took the pill it was a really painful thing i had to go through but now im okay but im still bleeding and it been almost two months now. all im saying is think twice before you can your decision about the pill since you 12 weeks, look into it some more plz.

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Help

Hi girls, I took the 4 pills at 7:40pm (7/15/11) and didnt start bleeding till an hour after. At first it was light bleeding like a regular period but after another hour i started bleeding a little more. Im not sure if im bleeding too much, but i have passed fairly medium-big size blood cloths and a small grayish cloth which i suspect is the tissue. Anyway im just a little concern about my bleeding, idk if im just exaggerating and its fine but still have my doubts. I wonder if the bleeding will lessen after the baby passes, but not sure when i'll know that it did. Can anyone tell me how i can know when its over? This is my first and im really scared and lonely at my house going through this. I would appreciate any comment

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hiiiiiiiiii im 20 yrs old i

hiiiiiiiiii im 20 yrs old i have lost my period it start date is 10/09/11 but not start till now i have a doubt im pragnent can u plz help me what can i do ? i have use praga news but the result is negative i have also doubt...........?

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Plzzzzzzzzzzz I need your help

I took the abortion pill at the office on June 23 and the 4 pills the next day after few hrs I felt a lot of pain and I passed clots. Immediately, the pain was gone. In my 2 weeks check up appt the doctor shocked me that the pregnancy is still positive and there is still some pieces in the ultrasound..the doctor asked me what I wanna do and I told him that I don’t want to do surgical procedure because I am really scared…so he gave me another 16 pills and told me to do the 4 the same day and take 1 pill 3 times a day for 4 days…I did what he told me and I had a heavy bleeding but no pain…I came back for my appt after one week…the doctor was on vacation and there was another doctor…he did the ultrasound for me and told me you are clean and the ultrasound looks pretty good…I felt relief but then he asked me if I am still bleeding and I said yes..he asked if it is heavy and I told him yes…then he told me that I need to do the cleaning because I am still bleeding…I asked him but why the ultrasound showed that I am clean…he said if you are still bleeding then there might be some tissues that he cannot see in the ultrasound…I explained to him that I don’t want the surgery and I am really scared…then he said you can wait for 5 days and come back to see if the bleeding will stop or it should be spotting only….my question is any one of you had the same experience? I thought the abortion will be complete by doing the pills for the 1st time because they are saying the percentage is 95%...but I had to take it again…and now I am not sure what to do…is my uterus clean? I really don’t want the surgery but at the same time I don’t want to get an infection and die…I am really scared and don’t know what to do…is it true the uterus clean itself naturally? I asked my friend doctor backhome she told me they don’t do cleaning if the ultrasound is clean and if the pregnancy is less than 7 weeks..She told me we don’t do cleaning unless it is necessary...plz help me I need your advice and your experience

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I had a medical abortion 7/2.

I had a medical abortion 7/2. My 2 week check up, I was told everything looked good but that I did have a minor infection. I was given an antibiotic and assumed things were ok. I stopped bleedibg for about 3 days and then while at work I started bleeding heavily bright red. I first thought this was just my period until 3 days later I was in the shower and had a sudden gush of blood fall into the tub followed by abnormally large clots. This bleeding continued for several hours so I called the doc whom told me to come in the next day. Last weds. When I got there I had an ultra soubd which showed there was tissue still left inside and that I would need to have the surgical suction to remove the leftover tissue. I had no one that could give me a ride so being I had to drive myself- I couldnt have general anesthesia. I recieved a local anesthetic and underwent the procedure fully concious. It hurt like a b$tch but was over in secs. Within 3 days the bleeding has finally stopped and I am praying that this whole thing is finally over.

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i took the pill june 3 and i

i took the pill june 3 and i did my follow up everything was good and when i went back i was still showing im positive every time i go. and i'm still bleeding to this day, im really scared bout that so i feel your pain. now i have an appioniment to see the doctor tomorrow, im scared to hear bad news cuz im still young. if the doc said to clean and thats the best thing for you to do then listen to him. so im going through the same problem so dont worry if everything is clear you should be good but i will feed you back on my follow up when i see the doctor but dont be scared just have the faith.

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Hi These days I stopped

Hi

These days I stopped bleeding i am only spotting..i already wrote that I took the first 4 pills on June 23 and then the doctor gave me 16 pills after that I went for my appt and he did an ultrasound for me, it was pretty clean ,but the pregnancy hormone was 57, and because the doctor knows that I am against doing D&C he gave me another 9 pills to take it for 3 days and he told me that i don't need to do D&C and this can be treated medically...I took it and in few days later I did the urine test at home and thank god it was negative..the nurses told me that I don't need to come back to see the doctor and i am ok since its negative...finally...i will schedule appts with a OB/GYN to do more tests and check up just in case for the future...I don't think u have to do D&C, here in the U.S they do it because it is a standard protection but it is really unnecessary if u r showing clean in the ultrasound and the hormone will be low in days…Wish u all the best

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plzzz reply

plz reply to my post plz i need ur help

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MY EXPERIENCE

I feel that I need to share my experience with taking the Abortion Pill. I actually was terrified after reading some of these stories. Some were more frightening than others. I basically scared myself into believing that the worst could happen. Like maybe I would die, have severe cramping and even the thought that the bleeding wouldn't stop. I took the first pill on 7/5/2011 at 5 weeks. I really felt nothing at all. 7/6/2011 I took a tylenol with codeine pill 30 mins before i was to take the remaining 4 pills at 11am. I was terrified and nervous of what the outcome would be like. I let the pills dissolve for until 1130am as directed. As soon as I swallowed the remaining of what was left of the pill it came back up. Lucky for me I had placed my trash can by my bed. I called planned parenthood right after and was told that I would be fine as long as I let the pills dissolve in my cheeks for 30mins. 5 mins later I saw spotting of blood. I got into the bed and fell asleep. I bought a heating pad to ease the cramps. Which for me were not that terrible. I was able to sleep through the cramps as they were very moderate. On a scale of 1-10 the highest being the worst my cramping was more like a 4. Because the heating pad helped. I never had to take any of the ibuprofen. Around 1pm after waking up I did however have diarrhea and vomiting at the same time. So make sure there is a trash can in the bathroom with you. HERE IS ANOTHER WAY TO SOOTHE YOUR CRAMPING: Place a towel in the tub and soak it with water for you to lay on and another towel to lay over your body and run the shower on your stomach. Make sure the water is warmer than extremely hot. Lay there as long as you need to. Once you get out make sure right after that you eat a something and take another pain pill and use your heating pad. You will sleep. My cramps lasted for 5 hours. My bleeding was lighter than I thought. Buy 2 packs of pads because you will want to change every time you bleed. My blood clots were very small. Some were as small as a dot from a pen but like multiple spots and smaller than a dime. The only thing that was big like the palm of my hand was my yolk that came out. That was me passing the baby. I bled for 6 days but each day lighter than the next. My follow up was 7/12/2011 and after the ultrasound everything was done and complete and I was finished. So please do not scare yourself into believing that you will not be able to have another baby and that you are going to bleed to death. Be calm and relaxed. Everyone's body is different and may go through different changes. Mines was not as bad as some of the stories you may read. Good luck in whatever you decide to do and make sure that is a choice of your own. Do not let anyone determine what you should do with the life of your unborn child. I let my boyfriend at the time force me into getting this done and I have cried so hard that I cannot imagine me getting pregnant again. I want to have a baby with someone who will be just as happy as I was. Good luck and God bless you all.

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Honest "Review"

I was a little leary after reading most of the posts left on this topic. It was hard to decipher what was real and what was put out there just to scare us. Anyhow, I just went through a medical abortion last week. I'll tell you exactly what I have been experiencing. I'm 39 and have never had a full term pregnancy. I'm in good shape with no medical problems.

I had the Doctor's office visit July 6th. They did the ultrasound and had to use the wand internally, but it was totally painless. I was about 5 weeks along. I was given my options about the types of abortions. For reasons that don't really matter to any of you, I chose the pill because I could not tell my husband about the pregnancy and thought I could do it alone.

I took the first pill at the Dr office. I was sent home and instructed to take the next 4 pills orally at midnight. I had zero side effects from the first pill. As instructed, I took one 800 mg Ibuprofin and 2 vicodins about 30 minutes before the 4 pills. At midnight, I let the 4 pills disolve. A weird side effect of disolving the pills was pain in my cheeks and a sore throat. I felt some minor cramping before the pills were even fully disolved. One really freaky thing happened within 15 minutes...I had tingling and numbness in my hands. It only lasted 10 minutes, but was kind of scary. Within 30 minutes, I had severe cramping. Not like I was dying, but worse than any regular cramps I've ever had. I felt pressure like I had to go to the bathroom and then had some diarrhea. Nothing major; more of a nuisance. I got the shakes and was sick to my stomach, but never threw up. I sat on the toilet about 30 minutes with severe cramps and then the pain meds started to kick in and I felt euphoric and sleepy. I laid down for about an hour and dozed, but woke up with more cramps.

The cramps came in quick waves. Severe for several seconds and then they would let up for a few seconds. I went to the bathroom again and some blood started to trickle. Then a walnut sized clump came out. It had a greyish color surrounding it. I went back to bed and fell asleep for 2 more hours. I just kept getting up and passing blood and smaller clots. My pads were not even getting soaked inbetween. The cramps got better by morning.

I stayed in bed all day on Thursday and just told my husband I was sick. I was incredibly tired and slept for almost the entire day. I kept taking the ibuprofin and vicodin as instructed and the pain was not too bad.

I've had consistent bleeding the last 4 days with a few little clots. Mild cramps come and go. My abdomen seems swollen and a little tender, but my appetite is fine. My breasts had gotten huge and really sore the 5 weeks I was pregnant and that symptom has not gone away. Anyone know how long that takes? I've heard it takes a while for the hormones to get out of your system.

All in all, it was not as bad as I had expected after reading some of these horror stories. I would not choose the pill option, however, if I had to do it over. If you are early enough along, you can choose aspiration and the healing/bleeding time is much quicker. I am not sure how I am going to explain a possible 10-30 days of bleeding to my husband.

No matter how you look at this, it stinks. I feel for all of you going through it. Make sure you get pain meds and take all your antibiotics. This is nothing to fool around with. I'll write an update after I go to my follow up appointment on the 21st. Good luck to everyone.

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Everyone is different....

Just like any drug that is taken everybody reacts differently... Not everyone is going to have a painful experience not everyone is gonna be painless. Use at your own risk. It reacts differently for everyone. Just as every other medication taken. So maybe the people posting that were in pain are not here to scare anyone they are just sharing their experience as you are. Be respectful and educate people not put them down or make it seem like its the best choice. This is a hard enough decision as it is they dont need everyone else over react toward it. So you either take it or you don't it's your choice but you wont find out what is going to happen with YOUR body until you take it for yourself.

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Is it normal???

I just took my second set of pills last night at 11 and ive been bleding but not a lot, i feel totally fine except by some cramps that feel like period cramps but nothing crazy. Im worried that the pills havent worked and im going to have to do surgery.. Please if anyone can help me let me know..

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Don't feel that way cause I

Don't feel that way cause I know I did too. I just recently yesterday 7/12/2011 did my follow up and everything worked out. Just relax and let the pill take it's effect on what it is supposed to do.

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What may happen if I take the

What may happen if I take the second abortion pills one week after I tooke the first one at the doctor's office?

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reply to ana

It doesn't work after 36 hours are up after you've took the first pill .

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wheww . its over .

Hello again . Welp I took the 4 pills yesterday (7/8/2011) around 4 but it didn't start workin til about 7 . For all who didntg read my last post I was only 6 1/2 weeks pregnant . When it started I stayed on the toilet the whoole time in soo much pain . I tried rocking back n forth to see if the pain would calm down even just a lil bit but noo . I didn't bleed that mucb but the pain seem to get worse as the I passed tissue and the baby . It was over for me within a hour and 20 mins . During the process I had the chills and my temperture did go up and down . I experienced vomittin and diaherrea as well . It was reaally painful but not that bad . I'm bleeding now but as a moderate light period with light cramping . The doctor said that bleeding up to 3 weeks is a normal process and after that I should get my regular period 4-6 weeks after . So besides that the pills worked normal for me and I had experienced all side effects besides headaches . I hope everything goes good for yooh girls and its okay to be nervous and scared because believe me I was, but now everything is okay . My next check up is Thursday the 14th so I'll be back to post how that went . Be strong ladies the pain lightens up a lot more after yooh pass through the baby . Good luck and God Bless .

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can i handle it

Hi, I am about to turn 20 at the end of this month and I'm 5.5 weeks pregnant. I'm struggling financially. Family is not worth depending on for support and help. The guy I laid down with still act like a 10 year old little boy at times. I go to the doctors on 07/15/2011 to take my pill. I am afraid that I'm making a bad decision because I really could have prevented that situation. I need counseling to help me get through it. Did you feel the same way???

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I am praying for you

Hey, I got your comment in my email.. I guess bc I previously looked at an abortion website from time to time. I got abortion in 2008. I was 17 at the time and already had a 2 year old little boy. I was very scared and thought I couldn't do it. It's 3 years later and I'm lucky to get through a day without thinking about my child. The child I will never get to meet, here laugh, or call me mommy. My life has changed so much since then. I have a 2 year old little girl now and my son is 5. Getting to my point I knew what I was doing was wrong when I went to take that first pill. But I went in there and swallowed it before I could let myself change my mind. It has haunted me badly. Yea you might not think you can do it but trust me you can. And if you can't there is always adoption. Pray and seek God he will show you. My b day is on the 15 I'll be 21 I know what it's like being a young mother and I also know what's it's like to have an abortion and give up your child for selfish reasons. Trust me you dont want to live with that for the rest of your life. I will be praying for you Hun.

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abortion pill

i was worried that is i took the pills that if i had to go to hospital that it would be picked up in blood tests that they would do and go on my records at the doctors as i don,t what this is there any thing i can do

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reply to sarah (abortion pill)

It shouldn't show up in your blood test . But just incase do more research abouut it .

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scared .

Hello, I'm 21 years old and I'm 6 1/2 weeks pregnant . I went to take my first abortion pill yesterday (7/7/2011) and today around 4:05pm I have to take the other 4 pills . I'm scared to death and really hopes this goes well . I've thrown up like 4 times today and don't even know why . I haven't really had a appetite to eat and I believe I supposed to have a nice meal before I take the pills . Right now I just feel sick to my stomach and I haven't really got out of bed . Just been sippin on water . I can't have the baby because I'm not ready to be a mother . I just want some encouragement .

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You'll be fine..

I am on my second full day after taking my four pills. I have been a bit nauseous but have found that over the counter anti-nausea meds do the trick just fine (the chewables work the fastest..literally have saved me a few times). It's best to keep a hot water bottle or heating pad around for the cramps and be sure to take your painkillers and ibuprofen an hour before you take the 4 pills. That way they will have well kicked in by the time the other meds do. Be sure to take the pain meds and ibuprofen every 5 hours. Just relax and get as comfortable as possible, for most people the medication will start the abortion process within a few hours. Try and stay awake for the first 8 hours simply to monitor the amount you are bleeding. If you have to sleep set an alarm for an hour or two just to be sure.

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Serendip is so amazing, loan payments hurt less.

Ladies and girls doing your research about early abortion options, a word:

You already know, but it helps to know again. Every body is different, and only you know your life and mind. Trust yourself to make the best decision for you.

When a uterus moves something from inside itself down through an opening in the cervix into the vagina--whether that something is your period, an embryo or fetus, or a fully grown baby--that strong muscular organ has to contract. The muscle clenches and releases, and this is why you feel cramping. The opening in your cervix is *tiny tiny tiny,* and tinier if you have never given birth before. The larger the object passing through that point, the more it will hurt. Among other reasons, this is why the sooner, the better when a woman chooses abortion.

It is guaranteed that any way you deal with this pregnancy is going to physically hurt, and you are going to bleed. This is life--life hurts and life bleeds us. Life gives us the chance to heal and learn.

<3 <3 Take care of yourselves out there! <3 <3

--former Planned Parenthood counselor, current nursing student, personal experience with abortion and miscarriage

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m really worried

hi i took the first pill yesterday and some ppl are telling me that i wont be able to have a baby again now m worried nd tense what if i never concieve again..i mean can i avoid taking the second pill and mange to carry this pregenancy.

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thats not true, dont allow

thats not true, dont allow anyone scare you, no one will be offered to take the pills at marie stopes if they well know the pills wont make you able to concieve again.

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